http://www.suhaibwebb.com/relationships/am-i-marrying-the-right-person/
Asik2 topik ni. Kebuhsanan la..Tapi harini i just have to write on this bcos a lot of thoughts going on in my mind about it.
1st of all i agree dgn artikel ni.
If i were to marry, i harap sangat it would be with my best friend/ true friend, yg accept me for who i am, etc. pernah dgr tak, 'A true friend is someone who you can sit with in silence, but you feel like you had the best conversation in your life!' Org yg mcm ni la i nak. Bukan ni je la. Byk lagi ciri2 'lelaki idaman' i, cewah..;)
Hmmm....byk lagi thoughts u had on this topic, like my criterias for a future husband-thus why i sometimes tak layan/ avoid some guys yg clearly 'intersted'...it's becos diorang tak memenuhi spesifikasi big time!
Tapi, tiba2 malas pulak nak tulis dah.
Basically, i tau i at risk of ataupun mmg dah terlebih umur ideal utk kahwin for perempuan, but i rather be choosy than menyesal seumur hidup.
I am choosing to BE choosy!
Sudahla, since umur pun dah lewat, i dont care anymore really. Kekdg tu mmg hati tersentuh tgk kwn2 sebaya atau junior2 ni dah kahwin and ada 2+ anak. Aatupun yg bakal kahwin dlm masa terdekat. Tapi, buat apa risau pasal ni, tu kan rezeki masing2.
Allah tak bagi hak ni, dia bagi hak lain, Insya Allah.
Prinsip hidup i now ialah, i hanya akan plan for esok hari sahaja(as in the day after today only, ), i tak nak risau/plan for future yg jauh2 sangat..sbb plan2 sgt pun selalunya tak jadi,kan. Baik dalam kerjaya mahupun kehidupan. Klu plan pun yg perlu sahaja.
Allah knows best for us.I'll let him bentangkan the next chapters of my life in front of me- and i'll take them as they come.
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